This is a question that I struggled to answer for the first time about 3 years ago. We had to decide what to do about Barney beagle (age 11), who was sick with lymphoma.
So here we are, three years later, having to make the same decision again. This time it was about Barney's life long partner, Coco.
Coco was not sick with an aggressive disease like Barney was, but she did have some slow growing internal tumors. So we’d been watching her closely for the last year to see what would happen. She'd have her good days and her bad days, and sometimes we'd wonder if it was time for her to go. But then she'd bounce back and all would be normal again.
Until the last two days... :(
For the past few months I'd been watching this tumor develop along her neck. Then the other day, something went wrong in her mouth. Either a tumor broke up or she had an abscess maybe because of a bad tooth. She looked horrible, her face was swollen, and she started to move slower than normal. I think the pain was finally getting to be a bit too much.
So we made that awful decision, and chose to put her down today, 11/24/10. The picture I submitted is one of her last shots. We are at the parking lot of the vet’s office, and the boys are holding her. I chose to enter this shot because Coco was a master at making eye contact with the camera:
For the last few months though, she was cranky about posing, and would walk away whenever I tried to take pictures. So I feel quite fortunate that I was able to capture this one last look from her.
I loved this dog. We got her when she was 6 weeks old. She was a mama's girl and taught me so much about unconditional love. Today we sat together for three hours - she fell asleep in my lap while I was counting down how much time we had left together. I lost one great little fur baby today and my heart is broken
So how do you know when it's time to say goodbye? I don't believe I'll ever know. I’ve had to do this twice now and I still feel sick about it. I think it sucks having to make this kind of decision. And although I know it really was the right thing to do, I still question whether the timing was good or not.
So goodbye sweet Coco. Thanks for being my furbaby for the last 14+ years :) I know you are having a grand old time now with Barney. I miss you :(
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Moving picture and write up. It's a challenge that every pet owner faces and some point and will never be easy.
I think the processing is really effective here as the lensbaby effect helps emphasise the lack of clarity around the question.
The main subject is clear . . yet also unclear.
You know the answer - yet it's not a simple quick crisp answer.
Some bits are sharp - others are not so focussed . . .
. . and the chin in the background helps tie in Coco to your family - not a specific person - but more a generic member of the family.
This is about the dog - but it also affects you guys.
Oh dear Coco!!! My heart is aching for you (and glad for her that she can now be playing free of pain on the other side). I had to do the same with two of my Aussies within months of each other. It is painful but the kindest thing we can do for them. Blessings!!
It doesn't matter what the placement or score is on this picture - because it means the world to you. I put my Annie down November 13th - it's amazing how they seem to know what's going to happen. Dogs are definately the most wonderful of companions!
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Ok....tears galore right now. I can't even see to type this in. (and, I don't even know WHY I came in here tonight as I haven't been here since the summer!)
"My heart and the love in it is strong but, my body is giving out. I've lived a good and long life and I've been loved greatly and I have given love back in return. I've played and eaten the best and, I've sampled the garbage from the kitchen and front porch. I've had the pleasure of having rolled and laid with 3 babes who have grown into fine young men. I've been given all that I've ever needed, wanted and more and I've given my all back to those who have shown me a beautiful life. I am loved.
I am not gone. I am in your hearts and minds and will be beside you, watching over you all. Be happy for me....for I was tired but, I will always be with you. You'll feel me with you wherever you are for I am eternal and my love is eternal just as I know that your love is eternal for me. You knew what I needed most and you gave that to me. Just as for every other living being...it was just my time to take a rest. I thank you for loving me so much to be so unselfish to have let me be free to go and take that rest."
Eyes speak volumes and you've captured that in this shot. 10
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