Originally posted by frisca:
Anita I really think you need to talk to your mom and a counsellor about all this. Especially your mom. She has hugs for you that you will find give you immeasureable strength.
Also -- don't go to wherever that fuck is. He only wants to be friends. He doesn't love you. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU. Did I mention that HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU? |
I'm really with Frisca on this, and I think all of us seem pretty united. I'd only like to add that from what you've said he's said, your relationship is already over. And that 'just friends' thing isn't viable, just for the reasons you've stated. That's okay, though, one should have a good idea who they are and what they're all about before they commit such things to someone else.
I say throw a fantastic pity party (most people use that sarcastically, but I think it's quite therapeutic), get your mom and your friends in on it, maybe destroy some cheezy photographs. Then get up and go discover the rest of you life. It's not going to be easy and it's not supposed to be, but that doesn't mean you can't get through this.
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