This thread took a rather interesting twist...
To address the necrobump...
You and your husband need to reach an agreement. While I personally disagree with your statement that all nude photography is porn, it's your opinion and you're well entitled to it. Your husband and yourself need to reach a some sort of understading on things, hopefully where neither of your opinions are marginalized (good luck with this).
Regarding the OP...
The model just has to understand the repercussions of such an image. I've only photographed myself, and for good reason. I understand the ramifications and accept them. A thick skin is necessary, as well as a very high comfort level with themselves. It'll go anywhere and everywhere. But really, to me, I don't try to hide in my skin. It's who I am, it's one level of me. I can't ignore it, so I embrace it. If there are reservations, pass. Period.
its funny the violent imagery that is shown on basic tv, but god forbid we see a picture showing a nipple or someone's bare behind.
somehow somewhere this became taboo, and its sad.
oh and a side comment, all nudity isn't porn. nudity with no other intent than to cause arousal is porn. big, big difference.
The second possibility is to have neither. I always see the argument that we have violence so why not nudity, but what about the argument that we don't have nudity so we shouldn't have violence. ;)
its funny the violent imagery that is shown on basic tv, but god forbid we see a picture showing a nipple or someone's bare behind.
somehow somewhere this became taboo, and its sad.
oh and a side comment, all nudity isn't porn. nudity with no other intent than to cause arousal is porn. big, big difference.
The second possibility is to have neither. I always see the argument that we have violence so why not nudity, but what about the argument that we don't have nudity so we shouldn't have violence. ;)
My argument is that nudity should be perfectly fine, but violence should be eradicated.
Yes, I realize this is an old posting thread but the subject if brings up isn't. Now, what is the real subject? is it Nudity vs Porn or is it Marriage, Trust and Consideration.
I understand why he told his wife, after the fact, of what the shoot was about. If it was a paid gig and he knew she wouldn't want him to do it then he avoided the fight until after he was paid. Now, for me, that's where the problem is and not the shoot.
Give it some thought, Is any shoot, paid or unpaid worth the aggravation or danger that it might pose to your family life? If you don't care then it might be but if you do, think long and hard if glory or money is worth losing what means the most to you for it.
Just a though guys. No personally, I don't mind nudity but am not interested in sharing nude picts of me. There are limits and If my husband wanted to do a tasteful nude shoot, I think I would be ok with it but would in NO way want to tempt fate and have that shoot be just him and/or me and the model. Privacy is important but understanding relationships is more critical to long term peace and happiness.
...I would be ok with it but would in NO way want to tempt fate and have that shoot be just him and/or me and the model. Privacy is important but understanding relationships is more critical to long term peace and happiness.
Shouldn't be a problem unless you or your spouse/significant other are still too immature and insecure. Nude photography is not like having sex with the model...it is taking a photo of the model in the nude. Art students do this, so why should it be a problem if you are not insecure and immature? And if you are a single person doing it, and it leads to something more, good for you.
when hubby first asked me about posing nude I was rather reluctant and shy, that was in 1986. Since then he has taken many nude/lingerie and nylons/stockings pictures and videos of me!
At first only the staff at the local photolabs who developed them got to see them. Then he started to show them to his buddies. Next he would make bets with me and if I lost he got to post a some of my pictures online, (he had me throw three darts twice to determine the number of sites and how many pictures)!!
In about 1990 we also made bets for my videos. If I lost I had to roll 2 dice, the first dice represented how many adult videos he would rent, the second dice determined from how many of our local stores. He would then go rent the VHS movies, and would put a strip of tape over the broken out tabs. At the end of each of the feature adult movies he would add some of my home videos so that if the renters watched the entire feature they would also get a local lady as a bonus!!
On one occasion I lost a daring double bet that meant he was allowed to bring and show my videos at his friends stag party, the second part of the bet being that he picked out my outfit and had me do a private dance for the groom to be wearing on high heels and sheer black stayup stockings!
when hubby first asked me about posing nude I was rather reluctant and shy, that was in 1986. Since then he has taken many nude/lingerie and nylons/stockings pictures and videos of me!
At first only the staff at the local photolabs who developed them got to see them. Then he started to show them to his buddies. Next he would make bets with me and if I lost he got to post a some of my pictures online, (he had me throw three darts twice to determine the number of sites and how many pictures)!!
In about 1990 we also made bets for my videos. If I lost I had to roll 2 dice, the first dice represented how many adult videos he would rent, the second dice determined from how many of our local stores. He would then go rent the VHS movies, and would put a strip of tape over the broken out tabs. At the end of each of the feature adult movies he would add some of my home videos so that if the renters watched the entire feature they would also get a local lady as a bonus!!
On one occasion I lost a daring double bet that meant he was allowed to bring and show my videos at his friends stag party, the second part of the bet being that he picked out my outfit and had me do a private dance for the groom to be wearing on high heels and sheer black stayup stockings!
It certainly has spiced things up!!!
I see you are a brand new member. Are you trying out this site before you submit your letter to Penthouse Forum?
when hubby first asked me about posing nude I was rather reluctant and shy, that was in 1986. Since then he has taken many nude/lingerie and nylons/stockings pictures and videos of me!
when hubby first asked me about posing nude I was rather reluctant and shy, that was in 1986. Since then he has taken many nude/lingerie and nylons/stockings pictures and videos of me!
At first only the staff at the local photolabs who developed them got to see them. Then he started to show them to his buddies. Next he would make bets with me and if I lost he got to post a some of my pictures online, (he had me throw three darts twice to determine the number of sites and how many pictures)!!
In about 1990 we also made bets for my videos. If I lost I had to roll 2 dice, the first dice represented how many adult videos he would rent, the second dice determined from how many of our local stores. He would then go rent the VHS movies, and would put a strip of tape over the broken out tabs. At the end of each of the feature adult movies he would add some of my home videos so that if the renters watched the entire feature they would also get a local lady as a bonus!!
On one occasion I lost a daring double bet that meant he was allowed to bring and show my videos at his friends stag party, the second part of the bet being that he picked out my outfit and had me do a private dance for the groom to be wearing on high heels and sheer black stayup stockings!
It certainly has spiced things up!!!
Hmm...
The first occasion was 24 years ago, and this whole post seems centered more along the lines of prurient interest rather than artistic nude photography. Glad you & hubby are having fun, but this seems somewhat out of place here.
I don't understand and yet I do understand. I really believe it depends on the couples sexuality (esp. hers) as well as "is she pretty without her clothes." My wife is in her early 40's and digs posing nude with and without pics of my manhood in different and ALL parts of her body. I'd say my wife is a 7.5 to 7.9 in the face and 8.1 in the body. I post her nudity on the internet with out face shots. She gets off, as do I reading comments people make. And, yes...there are negative comments now and then. Most likely from guys who aren't married or have NEVER been laid.
